there's something inherently wrong with someone who actually wants to kill to keep the peace, who's area of expertise is combat, who's career is a war and in whose profession, rape is so common an offense it calls for a 3 day UN conference:

BBC NEWS | Europe | Rape in war 'a growing problem'

The UNFPA says that, while sexual violence in wartime is not new, there is evidence it is becoming more common.

Women and children are vulnerable, not just during armed attacks, but also in displacement camps, during aid distribution and even after conflict has officially ended.

the man i love held a gun once, and never fired, and is serving 9 years for it, these guys hold a gun, and kill and it's heroism. makes zero fuckin sense to me.